Erin Kaye M Palmos

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Letter to the New Girlfriend

Dear New Girl,

Hi. You probably may know me already and this letter should not be an issue. I had 2 years and 6 months and probably more and more months loving her, because it wasn’t really easy to let go after the break up. I gave all the attention that I could give because she deserved it. Even if she’s really really busy with work and other activities, I was always in support and proud of her. You probably hate me by now because I’m telling you all these things. But it is just to help you, that giving your “Yes” to her is like saying Yes to the biggest challenge in your life. Don’t be scared. We all face it. But to tell you honestly, you will have to go the extra mile in loving her. Give her all the time that you can. She doesn’t cook, so please guide her in the kitchen. She became health conscious through me because I have a degree of Hotel and Restaurant. She is sometimes moody specially when things don’t go well from her plans. So please have a bit more patience and understanding. It will be best if you have a listening ear because she tends to rant so much. She loves her work and family. So don’t expect too much that she can give you the time as much as you can give - Learn from my own mistake. She is very friendly and stupid enough to know if a girl is already flirting with her. She will just think that they’re both just being friendly. So please GUARD her. Also. One important thing. Please take good care of her. Because I think I didn’t. I made her fat once. Because I always wanted her to be satisfied and experience the things I experience too since I’m from the industry that is related to food and beverage. She likes watching movies. Especially when cuddling.I just find her really lovely and fun to be with.

You are very lucky to have someone so intelligent and a very loving person. Lucky enough because you have the person whom I always wanted to keep for a lifetime. Please don’t break any promise that you made, because it breaks her heart. I swear you will not like it if she gets upset from breaking your promise. She was loyal to me. She loved me and just me. So I guarantee that she will stay loyal to you too. She will have a lot of things in mind for the future that I hoped that I was on it. But I guess it is your job now to help her reach those goals.

If only I could fight even more I wouldn’t have to let her go. If it wasn’t because of the time and the situation we had, it would have been perfect. I love her. And the problem is I love her too much. Yes. I did not use past tense. I’m sorry. Please make her happy. That’s all I want for her. If you can give more than what I did, please do so. This is really really difficult for me but if we will talk about her happiness, I am very much willing to step back and leave you guys alone. Please love her truly, unselfishly and unconditionally. Lastly, I thank you for looking out for her. For saving her from all the pains I have caused her. Continue to be you, because she loves you as you are. Stay happy.

Sincerely,
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